Sunday, February 18, 2007

Is crying only women’s prerogative?

When I have been angry at my children,

they have been quiet.

I have felt them talking to me without speaking.

They appeared to be screaming without raising their voice.

Being well-behaved and well-groomed children they are.


What was the result?

I would end up crying without weeping.

Now that they are gone

And I remember all that,

I am weeping.


When I am without my children, I cry.

Is crying only women’s prerogative?

If there be equality between sexes,

why can men not cry?


Have heard and felt too.

At times, when I am very happy,

tears roll down my cheeks.

But when I am sad, less or more,

I have never felt like laughing.

Nobody can make me smile.


After all, wise men have said :

Laugh, and the world laughs with you;

Weep, and you weep alone.


Weeping is contagious too!!

I wonder if other animals ever weep.

But then, other animals may not have any issues about:

“What is” is not “what it ought to be”.

4 comments:

Arjun said...

perhaps...its the concept the world has created of what a man should be like...I am sure you know...its interesting how you seek equality there...@ crying

Anonymous said...

no, its just that the path travelled towards intended ambitions will decide whether it is likely or unlikely to happen, not the "intended ambitions" per se.

Arjun said...

choosing the right path(most likely yielding success path) is getting as close as possible towards success(my opinion..not to discard work that needs to be put in)..but..what I wanted to see by posing the question was that...the author of this blog is being stereotypical ...it gives me the impression of a person, who loves to do something....which isnt the most demanded thing in the market at the time...so he would stop doing it and pursue what would make him successful( not in the field he loves)..its almost like..you are not going with the heart and for passion...is it right to do?

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